Arlene and two adopted dogs.

Just a blog from someone who loves to communicate with other dog owners

Just do it

Will You Dance With Me?


Too many people put off something that brings them joy just because they haven’t thought about it, don’t have it on their schedule, didn’t know it was coming or are too rigid to depart from their routine.

I got to thinking one day about all those women on the Titanic who passed up dessert at dinner that fateful night in an effort to cut back. From then on, I’ve tried to be a little more flexible.

How many women out there will eat at home because their husband didn’t suggest going out to dinner until after something had been thawed?  Does the word ‘refrigeration’ mean nothing to you?

How often have your kids dropped in to talk and sat in silence while you watched
‘Jeopardy ‘ on television?

I cannot count the times I called my sister and said, ‘How about going to lunch in a half hour?’ She would gas up and stammer, ‘I can’t. I have clothes on the line. My hair is dirty. I wish I had known yesterday, I had a late breakfast, It looks like rain.’ And my personal favorite: ‘It’s Monday.’
She died a few years ago. We never did have lunch together.

Because we cram so much into their lives, we tend to schedule our headaches. We live on a sparse diet of promises we make to ourselves when all the conditions are perfect!

We’ll go back and visit the grandparents when we get Steve toilet-trained. We’ll entertain when we replace the living-room carpet… We’ll go on a second honeymoon when we get two more kids out of college.

Life has a way of accelerating as we get older. The days get shorter, and the list of promises to ourselves gets longer.
One morning, we awaken, and all we have to show for our lives is a litany of ‘I’m going to,’ ‘I plan on,’ and ‘Someday, when things are settled down a bit..’

When anyone calls my ‘seize the moment’ friend, she is open to adventure and available for trips. She keeps an open mind on new ideas. Her enthusiasm for life is contagious. You talk with her for five minutes, and you’re ready to trade your bad feet for a pair of Roller blades and skip an elevator for a bungee cord.

My lips have not touched ice cream in 10 years. I love ice cream. It’s just that I might as well apply it directly to my stomach with a spatula and eliminate the digestive process The other day; I stopped the car and bought a triple-Decker.
If my car had hit an iceberg on the way home, I would have died happy.

Now…..go on and have a nice day.
Do something you WANT to……. not something on your SHOULD DO list.
If you were going to die soon and had only one phone call you could make, who would you call and what would you say?
And why are you waiting?

Make sure you read this to the end;
you will understand why I sent this to you.

Have you ever watched kids playing on a merry go round or listened to the rain lapping on the ground? Ever followed a butter fly’s erratic flight or gazed at the sun into the fading night? Do you run through each day on the fly? When you ask ‘ How are you?’ Do you hear the reply?

When the day is done, do you lie in your bed with the next hundred chores running through your head? Ever told your child, ‘We’ll do it tomorrow.’ And in your haste, not see his sorrow? Ever lost touch? Let a good friendship die? Just call to say ‘Hi?

When you worry and hurry through your day, it is like an unopened gift….
Thrown away….. Life is not a race.
Take it slower.
Hear the music before the song is over.

Show your friends how much you care. Send this to everyone you consider a FRIEND. If it comes back to you, then you’ll know you have a circle of friends.

To those I have sent this to…
I cherish our friendship and appreciate all you do.

‘Life may not be the party we hoped for but while we are here we might as well dance!’


  1. Quite right, we never know what is round the corner and should put our heads on our pillows each night with no regrets about not finding the time to do something for someone or for ourselves.

    • And I think you know that feeling all too well Anne. Thanks for visit, and I hope Clare and |Isobel are well. I see you’ve blogged, I’ll have a proper look probably tomorrow.

  2. It’s sad you didn’t get to have lunch with your sister…. You’re right we should all live like today is our last and to enjoy every bit of it and to leave the excuses behind ….

    • Thanks for your visit Lady Jude, to be honest it wasn’t my sister, it was the author of the story, I just passed it on, as I thought it was a good mantra to live by.

  3. I agree wholeheartedly Arlene, so much missed by being so, so careful, and saying we’ll do this when…etc…Too late, do it now. Bess was on a strict diet, and now? I say to my ex. if she wants it, she can have it, (within reason, don’t want her fat as a pig and her legs bowing, but you know what I mean?) … Live for the day… Great blog my friend, and great maxim for this life of ours. hugs to you, Tango and Ruby. from me and her. xPenx

    • Hi Pen, glad to hear Bess is enjoying life and being just a little bit spoiled, in a sensible way. I do try and live up to this as far as possible, and if |I want something, or want to do something, if it’s within my limits financially and physically, I do it.
      Hugs to you and ear tickles to Bess. Licks from T&R

  4. and dance like nobdy is watching! i agree whole heartedly!

    • Oh yes, I like that.!

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